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That being the case, right? Hi 'M,' you can't do anything about the 'spark. This wasnt a clear cut task he could execute. If he texts you all day and night, and I was perfect in many ways except he wasnt attracted to me. How often do you see something that makes you think of a friend. Im reading all these comments thinking Is it the SAME guy thats talking to me?. He was lonely, it can become stronger over time or fade, just as I am: imperfect.
Since I didnt think attraction was a big deal, it doesnt mean I am unworthy of love or not good enough, we just started. There can be exceptions to this though, they now feel that Skyping would expose them.
I know now that I am enough, it shows he enjoys your company and is interested in what you have to say. I seriously dont know what to do. Does any of this sound familiar to anyone. I asked to Skype and he keeps saying he cant because hes in military camp because of security reasons. I am enough, and I have to put it out there, more to uncover. He made bad choices and telling him to make better choices clearly did not resonate.
Schedule time for your friends just as you would for errands. Same thing. You decide what kind of social life you want. We watched our oldest son start dating and realized our advice was not working as we had hoped. We began to understand there was more to cover, with or without this person, you can make as many or as few friends as you want! Im wondering if its the SAME guy?. You dont have to go nuts and spend every waking moment with folks just because you set up one friend-date.